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February 16, 2021 at 5:54 pm #93054
No, that’s not weird. I’m so glad that I was able to help:) And if/when you decide to share some, I’m first on the sign-up list! 😀
February 16, 2021 at 6:00 pm #93055@writerlexi1216 You’re so welcome! I’m so glad that encouraged you! <3
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www.jennaterese.comFebruary 16, 2021 at 6:05 pm #93056@writerlexi1216 Aw, I get you! I feel that way sometimes as well! But when I do, usually I just pray and then move on and keep on working. And sometimes I look back at my old writing and am amazed at how far I’ve come…and also I think about my writing dreams! And how hard I have to work to get there…sometimes I show my stuff to others for reviews and validation as well, haha…keep at it, girl! Hope you feel encouraged…
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If hours don't turn into daysFebruary 16, 2021 at 6:36 pm #93057Aw, thank you, Linyang! This really makes me feel a whoooole lot better 🙂 I can tend to think about how far I have to go rather than how far I’ve come, so if I look at things that way, it actually makes me feel a lot more confident and motivated at all the progress I’ve made! This definitely makes me feel encouraged, so thank you x 1,000!! <33333
February 16, 2021 at 8:40 pm #93090I loved those blog posts you wrote/sent to me!! Thank you for sending them, they were super encouraging! 🙂 I’ll have to read more of your blog now that I know where to find it 😉
February 16, 2021 at 9:24 pm #93099Anonymous- Rank: Eccentric Mentor
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@writerlexi1216 WHAT? My girl Lexi is feeling down? Nope! I will not stand for this! No doubt my predecessors have considerably lightened your mood, but I just want to let you know that you are most certainly not alone. Not by a long shot. We all feel self-conscious or just plain horrible about our writing. Trust me. I’m in that place all the time.
But it’s okay! There’s always room for improvement, yes, but there’s also beauty in everything that you write! I honestly think that your story is, like, the coolest ever, and I am SO in love with your characters already, and I would TOTALLY love to read your book!
You are in my prayers, girl! We all love you on here! <3
February 16, 2021 at 9:30 pm #93103Anonymous- Rank: Eccentric Mentor
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Aww, girl, I relate SO hard right now. I have asked the same thing SO many times: is my writing good enough? You’re definitely not the only one going through this.
Some things that I find really help me are just writing about my frustration. Or just giving myself the luxury of taking a few minutes to write about whatever I want. In the end I come back to my WIPs with inspiration and motivation. You will not always be inspired, but with a lot of praying God will push you through it. I say to myself so often, “Why is this so hard?” and the answer immediately comes, “Everything worth it is always hard. If something is easy, it’s not worth it.” I mean, if writing books was easy everyone would be publishing books. But it’s not easy, and we writers have the courage and faith to actually write, as you are doing. We’re not one of those casual people who are like, “I’ve always wanted to write a book,” but they don’t really want it, because they aren’t willing to do any of the work. They’re not passionate. You are, and that’s an incredible and rare gift. It means you’re truly talented, unlike everyone else. Remember that when you feel down.
Also, one thing I’ve found really helps is to just WRITE in my WIP when I’m stuck, without caring that it’s bad. Making a book good is what editing is for. If you never write that first draft where you just get the story out, you will never progress because you’ll always be stuck on each word. What really matters is the heart of the story, and after you have that everything else will fall into place. With God’s help, of course, always.
I hope this encouraged you, and I would love to beta read for you if ever you wanted me to!
February 16, 2021 at 9:34 pm #93104@Gracie-j
GRACIE, thank you!!! You have no idea how big I was smiling when I read that 🙂 That’s such a relief to know that I’m not alone, because I guess I get so wrapped up in thinking that I’m the only writer who feels this way. But that really helped me to know that it’s completely normal.
And oh my gosh, that’s so sweet!! I’m honestly so happy that you like it! It really makes me feel a whole lot better on the inside. And I’d totally love for you to read my book! I do feel like the middle is better than the beginning, though ^-^
And thank you so very much! <3 All of you are in my prayers, too!! I feel so blessed to have found Kingdom Pen, because not only do I get to talk about writing, but I got to make so many friends in the process 🙂 You guys are honestly the best!!! Thank you so much for the encouragement <3
February 16, 2021 at 9:41 pm #93105@joy-caroline
Girl, this means so much to me!!! Just reading that made me feel a lot better on the inside <3 And you helped me to change my perspective about feeling down, too! I never thought of it that way, that even though writing is hard, it shows talent and courage. That made me feel so much better! I’ll definitely keep that in mind every time I’m feeling down 🙂
And writing when I’m stuck is something I’m trying to do soo much. And I’ve found that not editing during the first draft really helps me, so thank you! I’d love for you to beta read someday! That would be really fun 😉
Thank you so much for the encouragement. It really means a lot to me! <3
February 16, 2021 at 10:35 pm #93115Anonymous- Rank: Eccentric Mentor
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Absolutely, anytime! If you ever need anything else just let me know, and I’m always available for beta reading! 🙂
February 17, 2021 at 8:51 am #93129@joy-caroline
Aw, thank you, Joy! My sincerest thanks 🙂 Yes, I’d love for you to read for me! All of you have been super encouraging, so maybe I’ll think about trying to get some beta readers soon… I’ll let all of you know if I do!
February 17, 2021 at 9:56 am #93133@writerlexi1216 Oh no! I’m very sad to hear you feel this way. I know I’ve definitely been there before, though. (I am there right now, lol) I never know whether my writing is good or not, I do aim to be published but often I’ll think my writing isn’t good enough and people aren’t going to like it and I will never be published. I think “what if my ideas are bad?” all the time. But I still write. Like Yoko Ono once said, “You may think I’m small, but I have a universe inside my head.” And as writers we need to get those universes out of our own heads and onto paper and into other people’s heads! So I’m not saying ignore your self-doubt, oh no I’d be the biggest hypocrite on earth if that’s what I was saying XD. I’m trying to figure out how to word this here, maybe, just keep pushing on ahead. I’m sure you’re a fantastic writer!!! I promise that I’ll be praying for you and your writing too.
(and by the way… if you, well, ever want any beta readers, I would be happycalifragilisticexpialidocious to do it for you. ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️ you get a wall of hearts of support from me!)
and B(o)tw… (Sorry, couldn’t resist) HOMESCHOOLED ZELDA FANS UNITE FOREVAAAAAAAAA!!!!!!!!
staring at the fields
if nothing's really real
i'll make the winter now my homeFebruary 17, 2021 at 10:05 am #93134Sorry if that was weirdly worded, I often can’t find the right words to express how I properly feel.. I just want to say that if you ever need a friend or someone to talk to, in good times or bad, I’m here. And so are all these wonderful people! I really want to support you guys even though I’m younger than likely everyone on the forum, and so I just really want to let you know that I care a lot, will be praying, and am here for you. ❤️🧡💛💚💙💜🤍
staring at the fields
if nothing's really real
i'll make the winter now my homeFebruary 17, 2021 at 10:12 am #93135Awwww, that was so sweet!!! Thank you so much for saying that <333 That’s a very positive quote, too! And you’re not bad at wording things at all! You have a really beautiful way of wording things, and it really brought a huge smile to my face 🙂 That’s an encouragement for me to read that, so thank you! And I would totally want you (along with everyone else) to beta read for me!!
(Awww, you guys are all so sweet you’re gonna start making me cry!!!)
I super appreciate that, and the same for you, too! I’m always here if you need a friend to talk to! That’s what friends are for (and all of you are definitely my friends)!!! Thank you for your prayers (all of you are in mine as well 🙂 )
And yes, HOMESCHOOLED ZELDA FANS UNITE FOREVAAAA!!!!! If I knew how to make the heart emojis, there’d probably be a thousand of them here!
February 17, 2021 at 10:20 am #93136@writerlexi1216 I am SO glad that that made you happy! When other people are happy it makes me really happy! cough happycalifragilisticexpialidocious cough XD
Aw, well thank YOU! I’ll probably take you up on that and start some deep convo sometime XD
yeah don’t mind if you also get tagged with a slew of images of Zelda… I am thinking about making an inspirational images topic for us to just put up art that inspires us… XD
HOEMSCHOOLED ZELDA FANS UNITE FOREVAAA!!!!
(May make that my tagline… XD)
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