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Hey Kefa.
First off, I want to say that I am truly sorry for what happened with the thing and the phone call. But, as one of the only adults on here, and the only constant adult, I do feel the need to bring up a few things. Mainly this. KP is not the appropriate platform for you to be talking about this. I know that you have friends on here, and that’s great. But I doubt you have met any of us in real life, and if you have, it’s a minority. Also, even if this was an in person group 100% and we all knew one another in person, this is still not the appropriate place. You need to be talking about things like this with your parents, or maybe your priest or father, (I’m not sure what the catholic equivalent is to pastor/elder) This is a public online forum and it is not healthy for you to be posting this kind of stuff for the whole internet to read, and quiet honestly, it’s not healthy for us to have to deal with it. I’m not saying that we don’t care, but some things are just not appropriate to share online, and some things are not appropriate to share with peer and friend groups. I don’t think this is appropriate for either. This is something for a familial or spiritual head, not for peers. You need to talk to your parents and spiritual leaders. Not us. I’m not saying that we can’t pray for one another, but if you were going to seek prayer in a good way for this, just tell us that you need prayer for something in your life. We can pray for you and God knows exactly what happened so He will know what we are praying about. We do not need the details, and giving us details and a full story like this about a topic like this is unwise and frankly wrong. This is just not the right place. I know you are upset, most likely reeling, and it’s easy to make mistakes, but I just wanted to warn you that this isn’t an appropriate place for this sort of thing, and it’s actually in the KP guidelines that topics like this are not appropriate. You have no idea who else might read this and who’s innocence you might harm.
Anyways, I guess you’ll probably be angry with me, and I wish that it didn’t have to be this way, but someone needs to address it, and as one of the adults I thought I had better.
I will be praying for you but you do need to take this to your parents and/or spiritual leaders.